Dying Daily #353: In the Club

In the Club

Are you in the club? We all have our out-groups and in-groups. People who are in our club and people who aren’t. People we automatically trust a little more than we trust others, people who get a free pass. People we automatically distrust a little more, people who have to work a little harder to be in our more inner …

Dying Daily #348: Critical Failures

Critical Failures

Specifically Critical versus Vaguely Whining I have an analytical mind. This is useful and helpful in diagnosing problems and finding ways that things might work better. This is destructive and unhelpful in relationships and broader life circumstances. I have noticed a difference between what is helpful and what is not, and it pertains to the specificity of the complaints and …